I'm a 20 year old female. A few months ago I got a
devastating haircut, along with some other major changes in my life, while
trying to mangage 6 classes and work.
My hair was extremely
thick and long. I had been growing it out for years (it grows extremely slow)
and finally reached my goal length (at my belly button). I got compliments on
it daily and it gave me so much confidence.
The hairdresser cut
my hair so uneven when I had only asked for a trim, I had to cut at least 12
inches off to just above my armpit. I also asked for subtle face framing
highlights, and came out with white streaks on my virgin/never dyed hair. I
then had to dye my hair dark to fix it.
I was so devastated
and overwhelmed, especially because I'm obsessed with fashion, hair, and
beauty. So my hair started to fall out. And not a little, a lot. I loose
fistfulls of hair everyday. I look in the mirror and hate what I see. I've
stumbled into a deep depression, and haven't been able to see the light at the
end of the tunnel.
I obsess over my hair
everyday, and can't seem to find happiness in anything. It's odd, I was such a
happy person, and now I hardly want to wake up in the morning or leave the
house.
If you've dealt with
stress related hair loss, how long did it last? How did you cope with it?
I've been taking
vitamins, trying to exercise more, scalp massages, drinking water, went to the
doctor as well. I've spent hours researching but in desperate need of hope.
I would appreciate
any suggestions or encouraging words, I'm really at a low point, and this has
changed my entire life for the worse. I've lost sight of who I am, and have no
confidence anymore.
ANSWER:
All thought, good
and bad, is creative and tends to lead to a material thing. That is why we must
learn to be more positive. The environment and all the experiences in life are
the result of habitual and predominant thoughts.
Negative thoughts can tell us about something that needs attention.
So, thoughts lead to discovering what needs to be done, and one can think
positively or negatively to take care of it. Many people fail to see a negative
occurrence as a learning experience and continue to feel victimized and
helpless, ultimately blaming others for what they drew to themselves.
Replace negative thoughts with positive ones. Look for a
bright side in every situation. We will find that there are surprising benefits
within them. If we do this long enough, it will become habitual, and it will
make a tremendous difference in improving our positive thinking skills. Say
"I can!" more than "I can't!" Remember, everything can be
framed positively; make a relentless effort to do so.
Even when we don't get what we want, we gain valuable
experience. Experiences are often much more valuable than material things.
Material things slowly waste away; experiences stay with us, growing, our
entire lives.
There are both positive and negative aspects to most
situations. We get to choose which ones we will focus on. We can try to catch
ourselves when we're being negative and try thinking the opposite.
There's no sense in worrying about the negatives if they
cannot be changed. Some parts of life are "unfair." That's because
life just "is." If we waste energy and happiness on the things we
can't change, we'll only make ourselves more frustrated.
FOR HAIR theres this mixture for hair :
-1 egg
-ARGAN oil
-sesame oil
-a little milk
-a little sugar
- hazelnut oil
- brennessel tonic
(boiled dried brennessel leaves)
mix them,and apply to
your hair. wait for at least 2 hours and wash your hair with ARGANRAIN shampoo
www.arganrain.net DO NOT USE HAIR
CONDITIONER.
Do this 3-4 times a
week. I had extreme hair loss in the past,no medicine or hair lotion provided
permanent solution. I used only these natural materials and my hair loss
problem has disappeared!
I havent had any
serious hair loss since 2 years.
I think the effect of stress is completely...
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